I was listening to Francesca Battistelli - "This Is The Stuff" the other day and thought "Mom would have loved this song" As I listened I realized that Dad and Mom taught me these things.
They were not perfect but what parents are? They loved me and cared about what happened to me and how I looked at life.
Mom taught me it wasn't the end of the world to lose your keys, wallet, credit cards... because they could all be replaced. Mom taught me that you are never lost... just going on a new adventure! (Even if it is through a drainage ditch!)
Dad taught me to be loyal to friends and family and to keep your word. Even if it cost you something. I remember Dad telling me to trust the Bible...that is was true and never doubt it. (I don't know where I would be today without that lesson learned).
My parents taught me to love reading, old movies and music from several decades. I remember my dad reading the Christmas Story from the Gospel of Matthew and Luke. I remember mom reading Winnie the Pooh, Mary Poppins and A Christmas Carol. Even when I was in high school I remember reading aloud with my parents.
Both my parents loved to sing. If I close my eyes I can still hear certain songs with them singing. They were by no means musical but loved to sing. Because of that I love singing and music.
Both my parents taught me that it is okay to cry, to be emotional, whether it was a movie, a news story or the death of a friend or loved one. But wouldn't allow me to wallow in self-pity.
They taught me that laughing at myself and my problems would go a long way. It isn't about hiding and not dealing with the problems but about realizing that there is more to life beyond here and now. They taught me that there are blessings and silver linings you just need to look and be open.
Looking back on my life and who my parents were, gives me hope that if I can look to God for their mistakes and short comings that my children will be able to do the same.
Because my parents were real with who they were, I don't feel like I need to put on a false face but can be real.
Next blog post: "No Reserves, No Retreats, No Regrets" yes I can say that.
